Friday, February 12, 2016

SUCCESS in DATING for People with Disabilities.

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Successful dating: Tips from a self advocate social butterfly.
by: Lisa Cesal

Dear Readers and Bloggers, 

I have been dating and spending time with men for almost 40 years.  Here are some tips that I have found to be successful.

1. Coffee bars (Starbucks, Pete's, etc.)  Women and men are very friendly and helpful making it easy to start a conversation.

2. Any religious gathering as long as you're willing to say "Hi."

3. Dating sites (Plenty Of Fish, Match)  Be honest - don't be afraid to talk about your disability.

4. Parks and Outdoor Events.  Just keep your eyes open!

5. Public Places (malls, theaters and restaurants)  Don't be shy!

Video:  Do's and Don'ts of Online Dating by Lisa and Chris.
Here is video from Lisa and Chris's youtube Channel where they talk about dating.


by: Lisa Cesal
Author, Self Advocate
IL Imagines Chicago and DuPage Member

Connect with Lisa.

Lisa's Book: Lisa and Chris have written a book about their experiences living with Cerebral Palsy. The book also illustrates how they have moved beyond the barriers of their disability.


Lisa's YouTube:  Lisa and Chris post videos twice a week on disability awareness.

The world of disability and dating is vast and diverse.  So below are a couple additional perspectives from different sources.  


Video: Wheelchair Dating Questions You’re Too Afraid To Ask by Buzzfeed Yellow


  • Santina is an actress, writer, and improviser—she’s also been in a wheelchair since she was 5 years old. She has answers for some questions people have about dating.

Video: Dating with a Disability #RealTalk from Stuff Mom Never Told You
  • Cristen shares the romantic high and lows of Stuff Mom Never Told You fans dating with disabilities. 
Note from the team:
The tips and videos are from a "heteronormative" perspective.  However, all of Lisa's tips can be useful for anyone on the gender and sexual spectrum.

Question for comment:

IL Imagines Chicago, wold like to learn from you.  If you have successful dating tips, ideas, please share in comments.

Thank you,
IL Imagines Chicago Team


Disclaimer: The ideas, suggestions, tips, expressed in this post and linked posts are for informational purposes only.  IL Imagines Chicago and all related members and organizations have no responsibility/accountability for any outcomes There are no guarantees.  Success in love and dating is up to our own individual merits.

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